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How Was Building Your Home Yourself?
People ask me this more than anything else: how did we build our own home? The short answer — we planned to GC it ourselves from day one. The longer answer is two full-time jobs, spreadsheets after dinner, and a few years living with my parents to make it happen. Here's what it really looked like.
Dani
5 hours ago3 min read


Finding Land for Your DIY Build: The Hardest Part Nobody Warns You About
Finding land is the hardest part of DIY building — and no one warns you. We got ours through pure luck: a farmer selling acreage off-market, after 3 months in my parents' basement with zero luck elsewhere. My husband saw it once, we made an offer, and 20 acres became ours. Here's our story, plus exactly where to look, what questions to ask before you buy, and why you need to be ready to drop everything and drive the second a lead comes in.
Dani
Aug 36 min read


What It Actually Cost to Build a House (And the Budget Mistakes I Wish We’d Avoided)
What It Actually Cost to Build a House And the Budget Mistakes We Wish We’d Avoided.
Dani
Jul 214 min read


Building a House? Here’s Exactly Where to Start
This is probably the question I get asked most often.
Not what flooring we used. Not how much our house cost. Not even what paint colors are on the walls.
It’s simply:
“We want to build a house someday. Where do we even start???”
Here’s the general order I’d recommend based on our experience.
Dani
Jul 154 min read


Permits & Pre-Construction Details: What Happens Before You Can Break Ground?
One of the things that surprised me most during our home-building journey was how much had to happen before construction could actually begin. Here's everything you need to know before you break ground.
Dani
Jul 84 min read


Getting Electric to Your Land: What We Learned (and What We Wish We Knew Earlier)
This is your one stop shop to learn about the steps necessary to getting electric on your rural land.
Dani
Jun 233 min read


Understanding Your Septic Options (and How We Ended Up with a Lagoon)
Before we got into this process, I honestly thought a “septic system” was just one thing you install and move on. Turns out, there are actually several different types—and which one you can use depends almost entirely on your land.
Dani
Jun 153 min read


A Beginner's Guide to Installing a Well on Your Land
Before starting this process, I honestly never gave much thought to where water comes from. You turn on the faucet and water comes out. That’s about as far as my knowledge went. 😂 Here is all we learned along the way!
Dani
Jun 95 min read


How to Schedule a Soil Test and Grading on Your Land (Without Feeling Clueless)
Buying land is exciting… until people start throwing around words like perc test, elevation, compaction, and grading plan like you’re supposed to know what any of that means. Here's everything you need to know to start the process confidently.
Dani
May 134 min read


How to Prepare for Your First Meeting With an Architect
After going through the custom home process ourselves, here’s what I wish more people knew before sitting down with an architect for the first time.
Dani
May 74 min read


How We Left Our Starter Home & Built Our Dream Life in the Country
There was nothing wrong with our starter home. But we always wondered what if. Here is our story.
Dani
May 14 min read


How Taking a Chance on Ourselves Changed Our Life
We had a starter home. Stability. Predictability. And we were talking about walking away from all of it… without a clear plan. We either take the risk now, or we keep talking about it forever.
Dani
Apr 253 min read


How to Get an Easement to Build on Land
If you’re buying land to build, this is the part no one talks about—but it can completely determine whether your land is usable or not.
Dani
Apr 205 min read


How We Knew We Were Ready to Build (Even When It Felt Risky)
Not sure if you’re ready to build a house? Here’s how we decided to move forward with our custom home—even when the timing felt risky.
Dani
Apr 143 min read


We Didn’t Build Our House the ‘Right’ Way — Here’s What We Did Instead
We didn’t build our house the “right” way—but it worked. Here’s how we managed a custom home build while working full time and doing things differently.
Dani
Apr 63 min read


How We Saved Money While Building Our Dream Home
Saving money during a build doesn’t always mean doing everything yourself . It means being intentional. Here is how we saved money while building our dream home.
Dani
Apr 13 min read


The Best Investments We Made When Building Our Modern Farmhouse
When we tell people we built our home while working full time, the first question is usually how—but the second is always, “What would you do again?” Here's the things that didn't just add value, it improved the way we live day to day.
Dani
Mar 264 min read


How We Built Our Home While Working Full Time
We were full-time working parents who built their dream home on 20 acres with ZERO prior experience. Here's how we made it work.
Dani
Mar 166 min read


What to Measure Before You Buy: The No-Regret Furniture Guide
Buying furniture is exciting. Returning furniture is not. Before you click “add to cart” or fall in love with something in a showroom, there are a few critical measurements that can save you time, money, and a whole lot of frustration. Here’s exactly what to measure before you buy.
Dani
Mar 32 min read


How We Budgeted for Land + A Custom Home
From unexpected flooring costs to skipping extra square footage, here’s how we built a 2,201 sq ft farmhouse we could actually sustain — without stretching beyond our means.
Dani
Feb 274 min read
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